Linda D. Scott, PhD, RN, NEA-BC, FNAP, FAAN, President, American Academy of Nursing

 

DOI: https://doi.org/10.1016/j.outlook.2024.102244

 

To quote one of the most celebrated voices in American history, we turn to Maya Angelou, who so exquisitely stated, “I have found that among its other benefits, giving liberates the soul of the giver.” Considering the context of the world as we know it today, we cannot turn away from the challenges facing humanity. The demand for us to examine more closely how we want to lead and contribute turns our attention to consider all aspects of our life. From the work we do, how we show up for others, to how we support our families and communities, and what organizations, institutions, causes, or candidates we support all add to our efforts to be a change agent aiming for positive outcomes.

Yet, outcomes can be illusive. How do we know we have made a positive impact? What if no one tells us our kindness changed their perspective? What if our candidate loses? How then do we grapple with giving and not seeing the desired outcomes? That answer can only lie in the “soul of the giver.” And while that is a journey for each individual, we must resolve to appreciate that change comes in many different forms. It may be big and sweeping, small and quiet, invisible to some and apparent to others. Change is seen through the lens we decide to carry.

Is our lens one of optimism and hope? Is our lens fixated on the negatives? Do we view the world transactionally or relationally? That lens can be a powerful determinant for our actions. It can drive us to give more or shut down completely. Because our lens is shaped by what we have seen and experienced, it informs how we choose to approach our own desire to give. And just as importantly, our outlook can change over time as priorities, life experiences, and attitudes shift. So, over the course of our lives, our approach to giving may vary. We may want to contribute more of our time, talent, and treasure at different stages because of the lens we carry and just as critical, but not always readily identifiable, the one we feel compelled to.